Sunday, February 15, 2009

Asher (our cat) Hit By Car, & Personal Responsibility

Friday night, our 8-month-old cat Asher was apparently hit by a car in the neighborhood. Asher didn’t die, which is certainly a blessing, but he did get hurt. He came up to our back door wanting in, which is normal, but when he came in, he hoped on three legs as best he could until he collapsed on the floor. He was crying out in pain. It was heartbreaking.

It was after 8pm, so our normal vet was already closed for the day. I called Brooke at work, and explained that I thought his leg was broken or dislocated. Brooke called the emergency animal hospital where we found out it would cost us a few hundred dollars just for a visit and x-rays. Since we are in the middle of fund-raising for our mission trip, we didn’t feel this was a wise expense, even though we wanted to take care of our little kitty. We decided to wait until our regular vet was open Saturday morning, so we prayed over Asher, and did our best to keep Asher comfortable through the night.

Saturday morning we could tell that Asher wasn’t doing any better. He was still crying out in pain, and his right, rear leg appeared to be just hanging. We called my dad and asked him what he’d do. Knowing how frugal my dad is, when he said he would take Asher to the vet, we knew we had to go.

We got in a last-minute appointment where the vet took x-rays, and we discovered that Asher’s leg had broken where the ball meets the hip socket. How painful! We learned that it could not heal on it’s own. The vet sent us home with a $315 dollar bill, some pain meds, and a decision to make: we can amputate the limb, have a surgeon repair it for $3,000, do nothing and let the leg be useless, have a practitioner perform an operation where he would put pins in the bone to let it heal for around $700, or just put Asher to sleep.

Back home, we watched as Asher tried to walk, collapse, drag himself across the floor, and collapse again. We knew what we had to do. When we adopted Asher from the animal shelter, he became a part of our family, and we agreed to take care of him as best as we could. Even though we don’t have the money, we are opting to have the practitioner perform the operation; it’s the only option we can come up with that will give us a clear conscious at the end of the day. It’s called personal ethics responsibility, and that’s what we have to do. Financially, it also makes sense: put Asher to sleep for another $100, which would have brought a total of over $400, only to have nothing to show for it. The total costs, after the vet visit, will be just over $1,000, but at least we will have our cat back. $400 for nothing, or $1,000 for our cat.

Brooke is going to pick up some extra shifts at the hospital, and any extra work I can get will help too. You do what you have to do.

Now where did I put that VISA card?


"Doing the right thing often costs us something....that's why it's called the right thing, and not the easy thing, or the cheap thing"

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Vaccinations for Liberia (many)

We’ve known since the beginning of the preparations for the Liberia Mission Trip that we would have to be vaccinated for a number of illnesses that we have overcome here in the States. Diseases like Malaria, Typhoid, Hepatitis A, Polio, Hepatitis B, Tetanus-diphtheria, Measles, mumps, rubella (MMR), and Yellow Fever are still rampant in the parts of Africa we will be traveling to. These diseases have never even entered my mind here in the US; I’ve not offered up even an afterthought to catching any of those illnesses. Malaria is one of the biggest killers in Africa, and the single biggest killer in children under five. Incomprehensible, considering that mosquito nets and medicine are available for less than $10 bucks per person. I’ve taken so much for granted living here in the “land of plenty”.

Brooke and I are contacting JAARS, one of just a handful of missionary centers around the US who focus of Bible translation and who send missionaries around the world. Even though we are not going on this mission trip through JAARS, they can help administer the necessary vaccinations (and we happen to be just 10-minutes from the JAARS location!). We have discovered that it will costs around $1,000 for us both to be vaccinated, and unfortunately insurance will not cover the cost, since there are vaccinations required for international travel, and not domestic living. It seems that nothing about this process comes without a cost.

Monday, February 9, 2009

An Incredible Update

On Saturday, as we were preparing our second newsletter mailing for the Liberia Mission Trip, an amazing thing happened. We met an older gentleman, probably in his upper 70s, and we were telling him about our desire to serve the orphans of Africa. We talked to the man (whom we had just met) for probably 5 minutes.

15 minutes later, this man walked up to Brooke and handed her something. It was some money to go towards our mission trip. She looked down at the wad of money and saw a $100 dollar bill! We graciously thanked the kind man. It’s really difficult to know how to respond when a total stranger hears your story and then unapologetically hands you money, only saying “when God tells you to do something, you do it.”

Later that night, on our way home, we took the hundred dollar bill out of our pocket, only to realize that there wasn’t just one bill….there were FIVE one-hundred dollar bills!

Wow.
A older man, whom we just met, just gave us $500 cash towards our Liberia Mission Trip.
That left us speechless.
Tears of gratitude seem like the only fitting expression.



This process is incredibly humbling.






(written by Josh)

Friday, February 6, 2009

WEEKENDS!!!

I'm moving to weekends! My schedule has changed or is shortly. As of February 15 I'll be working 7a-7p every Saturday and Sunday....which means I'll be off Monday thru Friday!! I'll only be working 24 hours, but still get paid for 36!!! What a sweet deal. Anyway, I'm super excited, with school it will be so helpful. Also, Josh is pretty busy so I'll be able to help him with Graybrooke business some during the week. I can always pick up extra hours at work as well. We have a busy weekend, we were supposed to go spend the night in Albemarle, but Mom isn't feeling well. Hopefully we will get to see her tomorrow. Tomorrow is Charlie Godfrey's going away party, he is leaving for Liberia next week. Sunday we are celebrating my little sister's birthday. She was 5 on Tuesday. We went to celebrate at Chuck E. Cheese. We are having the family celebration Sunday. I'm excited! I hope everyone has a great weekend!

Friday, January 23, 2009

Nothing new

Well, not much new has happened lately. We've been taking it easy as far as entertaining. I'm just doing the school and work thing. Josh is putting tile down in our bathroom, so far it looks so good!!! He needs to grout it and put the toilet back down. I think that's all that's left.

Tonight Blake is coming over! I'm so excited! I love any opportunity to see my family. Brandon (who might as well be a brother) is home from the Navy for a few weeks is coming over as well. We are going to get Zhong's (the best sesame chicken ever) and a movie! I'm excited!

I thought I had pics of the bathroom, but haven't put them on my computer yet. I'll just wait until its finished and post them then!

Hope everyone has a great weekend!